Ivy League BDSM Educator

BDSM was a calling for me in that I learned how to use my mental powers of creativity while being fully present in my body, all the while guiding my subjects towards “getting out of their head” through pleasure, pain and ultimately ecstasy.

 

As a BDSM educator, I am interested in teaching you how to expand your erotic palette by introducing BDSM and fetish play into your life at whatever level is right for you, be it one day out of the week engaging in power exchange or becoming a “weekend warrior, ”hitting up dungeon parties every Friday and Saturday night in latex or leather, toy bag in tow.

 

Whether coming to see me for a private consultation or a couple training session, I will custom design our time together so you can better express your BDSM desires. Dominant, submissive or Switch, I can teach the mental, verbal and technical skills you need to maximize satisfaction in your BDSM play, and playing with power. Some of my areas of expertise include: bondage, erotic torment, strap-on training, foot and shoe worship, medical play, spanking, flogging, and domestic discipline. “This session was even better than I imagined it could be,” a recent sub said to me on the way out of my dungeon after a 90 minute teaching and training session with he and his wife.

 

In addition to private classes and consultations, I also do small and large group demos and classes. Most recently, I did a demo on bondage for Skirt Club (January ’17) as well as a demo on sensation play at O Cinema Miami in conjunction with the Cinekink film series (September '16). I offered a talk on “BDSM and the Psyche” at O Cinema that focuses on BDSM, ritual and role play. For Reading Queer, a Miami literary arts organization, I taught a creative writing workshop guiding people to write about erotic encounters where they experienced pleasure from pain called “Queer (Dis)pleasure” (September '16). Other topics can include erotic humiliation, switching, healing rituals and BDSM, how to tell someone you are kinky, and playing with gender and psychological play. 

 

For rates on private consultations, custom private classes for couples, or small or large group classes, please email ladypfla@gmail.com.

Teaching BDSM as an erotic art of consciousness